It happened that my life path brought me to one man who is different from others, his orientation and his way of living had shown me and taught me a lot. Watching him walk his life path i always thought of mine, and I always realize that my life is much easier and have so little to complain about. I dont have to hide my true me, i dont have to be angry at God for his creation and i am not pushed to be married to someone whom i will never be able to accept.
For him to be a gay is a sin as per his religion and he would never ever be able to come out, Once in a year he would travel away to have a breather, to a place where no one knows him to the place were he doesnt have to hide, and can openly look at other man the way he want to.
I will never forget that day when i came to know about his secret, i remember that i wanted to rush to keep and shake him hard so he would turn into straight man, thou so many people gave me hints before i preferred to pretend that they were mistaken.
He did not opened up to me i just accidentally or he accidentally add me to a wrong account. I have patiently waited for another 4 years for him to finally tell me the truth.
So many times i wanted to open that subject so he could at least feel free with me, so he could sit with me with free mind without controlling his thoughts about what he said.
After coming out he brought into my life another two wonderful people like him. we first get to know each from the facebook and one of them i have already met in real. Now after almost 4 years of our facebook friendship this year i am going to meet the second happy man. They told me the way people call them means Happy so i prefer to call them happy men, and i find it more convenient for me specially when i ask “Is he happy too?” and he would say “yes he is happy too”
To every person who lives a happy life i want to say that i am the person who is cheering on you living on the other side of your world. I know i have a lot to learn from happy people and i bet that if you would try to think about their lives and the way they live you will change your way of thinking about your own lives. I respect my friend who being strong I respect him for being man and i respect him because he is a human being with the greatest heart, much bigger more kind heart that any one could even imagine.
Write now i want to address him here by the name because this post is all about him but yet i can’t because its still complicated. I just want to say “I love you my happy man for just the way you are and you need to know that love you more since the day you have opened up to me”